Sharing the Love

Over on my personal blog, I'm talking about my new favorite crafting project. 

You can click here to see what it's all about.

Here's a clue:

Thanks for stopping by and have a great day!

Illness: A Journey Update

Most of you may remember a post I did not long ago about my unknown illness. If not, you can read it here.

I have some good news. 

We know what it is.

It is a food "sensitivity."

I know. I was just as shocked as you are. After, are you ready for this, an allergist, a pediatrician, a gastroenterologist, a family medicine doctor, and back to the allergist again, we found out why I was so sick. 

At some point, I developed a sensitivity to eggs, corn, barley, sesame seeds, walnuts, and shrimp. 

Crazy, huh?

My allergist recommended cutting these food from my diet then eating one at a time and seeing which ones i reacted to. Let me just say, corn is now my worst enemy.

After all this good news, a new problem arose.

Anxiety.

With my illness, and going to college, and going to high school, and working for the Honors Mentorship Program, I developed anxiety and started having panic attacks.

I had started grinding my teeth somewhere in the middle of my food sensitivity so, the diagnosis of anxiety wasn't too shocking. I had also become uncomfortable and anxious about staying home alone for three hours in the morning before I went to school, something most people would find laughable. The worst part however, was driving.

Every time I got in my car to drive to school or go to work, I would get lighted or a headache, feel nauseous  and my ears would start ringing. These are the classic symptoms of a panic attack and I have them every day.

I have been working with my doctor to find the best treatment for me. We are currently trying a combination of medicine and counseling to curb my anxiety and cut down on the panic attacks. Goodness knows I don't need to panic while driving. 

Since my food issues have gotten better, so has my relationship with God. Let's face it, it's easy when times aren't rough but, I'm starting to think the physical journey was just preparation for the emotional one to come. He has been with me and given me the strength to fight through much of my anxiety and while I would rather not have it at all, it's all in His time. 

God got me through my physical illness. I know he will get me through this emotional one. 

A Provocateur

This week's assignment was to watch a TED Talk video of neuroscientist, David Rock. In his video, he talks about 'Provocateurs.'

He goes on to define a Provocateur as the following:

1. One who can notice subtle changes.

2. One who is okay with uncertainty.

3. One who knows how to be an agent of change.

We were then asked to think of someone from history, a current figure, or someone we know personally who is a provocateur.

My provocateur is a close family friend, Debbie Warren.

Debbie and my Mom have been friends since high school. They are so close, Debbie's daughter and myself were born nine days apart. (I'm pretty sure it wasn't planned that way but I wouldn't put it past those two.) 

Debbie is what I like to call a Mary Kay lady. Mary Kay is a company the 'Enriches Women's Lives.' They do it through both their products and their partnerships with organizations that work to improve the lives of women everywhere.

Debbie became a Mary Kay lady in 1986. She did well in her early years. However, like always, life kicked in. She and her husband own their own business, of which she is the office manager. They also have a daughter my age and son who is a little younger. Basically, life soon took over and Mary Kay fell to the wayside. 

In the past couple of years, Debbie and her family have gone through some events that required them to rethink some things. Debbie soon met another Mary Kay lady, Cecilia James. 

Cecilia started in Mary Kay when she was 18. She had to get a loan to purchase her Starter Kit which she says was one of her biggest motivator to sell and excel at Mary Kay. She has been with it more years than she would probably want me to say since I've mentioned her name but this past year she has made it to the position of National Sales Director, the highest position you can achieve. 

After meeting Cecilia and hearing her story of success, Debbie recommitted to Mary Kay. She wanted to change her circumstances and she was going to 'Make It Happen,' the motto of her unit.

Debbie then proceeded to sell and recruit and sell some more to earn her first car, a brand spanking new Chevy Cruze, and earn the position of Director in one month, an unprecedented achievement. 

She is the definition of a provocateur.

As a Mary Kay lady, you have to be able to tell the subtle differences between a person's skin color and the shade of make up you're about to use on them. Beyond that, she can tell when someone is really committed to making a difference not only in their own lives but the lives of women everywhere. 

While you can do VERY well selling Mary Kay, you don't have an hourly wage or a salary. Debbie doesn't know what her check will be each month but she knows she can work to make it whatever she wants it to be. 

She changed her life with Mary Kay, as well as the life of her family and mine. Not to mention the lives she has changed through Mary Kay's partnerships with organizations that work to improve the lives of women everywhere. 

Blogs and Technology

For this week, we focus on the blogs of other Honors Mentroship students and the technology of our final projects.

I think my project will have a bit of technology, mostly in the form of a PowerPoint with graphical representations of data.

I read and followed the following blogs:

Hana Brown's HanaBrownie
Kassie Thomas' Heart Beats and Breaks: A Musical Journey
Ashley Nolls' Through the Scope

A blog that relates to my Mentorship is my blog about my crafting adventures:

Merritt's Marvels

Three pictures:

 My First Craft Show

My Second Craft Show at The Oaks

My Second Craft Show at The Oaks

Illness: A Journey

For the past five months, I have been fighting a hard battle. I have been sick with an unknown illness.

            It started off benign enough, annoying, but not enough to require doing something. It got a little worse, so I took over-the-counter medications to alleviate some of the symptoms. It persisted, so I saw a doctor. They gave me some medicine, but it didn’t really help. Things quickly got worse and we immediately went to another doctor. They told simply they had no idea what was wrong but they would collect samples and run tests. One test came back negative; the other was inconclusive because the sample was in the container. They collected another sample and it came back negative, so the doctor prescribed me another medication. It seemed to help for a couple of days, but that was all. My symptoms continued to get worse. We went back to the doctor and they gave me some medicine to control the symptoms and referred me to a specialist. We went to the specialist and the doctor was unsure what was wrong but was going to run tests and a procedure. The tests came back negative and it was three weeks until the procedure. Those three weeks were some of the worst, the anticipation being much worse than the actual thing. The procedure told us a few things that I didn’t have but not what I do. The doctor didn’t know what else to do and referred back to the first doctor I saw. All of this back and forth and waiting has taken quite the emotional toll.

            Last year, I truly began a relationship with God. I enjoyed it so much. For the first time, I could see and feel God moving in my life. This illness has been THE BIGGEST test of my faith and there are times when I feel like I’m failing. I can’t count how many times I have told myself and others have told me, “Even if we don’t understand it now, God has a reason.” I’ve heard it so many times it has become my mantra. There is also the saying, “God doesn’t work on our schedule,” a phrase I have come to find painfully true.

            Despite all that, I still find myself feeling exhausted. Every morning, I would wake up and know that I was going to be sick and there was nothing I could do about it. This illness has also caused me to develop a fair amount of anxiety. I was unable to leave my house due to this illness. Every time I leave to go to school or even the doctor, I get anxious that I will be sick and unable to leave in time. It takes so much to fight through those feelings as well as physical symptoms, I find myself just wanting to crawl in a hole and not come out until it’s all over.

            Nonetheless, fight I do. My mom put it very well, “You can either keep fighting, hard as it is, or you can watch life pass you by.” I’m still going to doctors, still having tests run, still waiting, still fighting. I just wish I knew if I was winning. 

Vulnerability

This week's assignment, we are asked to answer question related to Dr. Brown's TED Talk about Connection.

1. How would you answer, "Sometimes, I am afraid I am not ... enough."

I would have to say 'strong.' For the past three months,  I have been sick with an unknown GI problem. In the last week, I have come down with a debilitating sinus infection. It was so bad, I couldn't even go to the Dr.'s Office to be treated. I have become so reluctant of leaving the house because I am so afraid that I won't be strong enough to make it through. 

2. How do you define vulnerability?

I define vulnerability as a little crack in the foundation of oneself. One that was caused by an injury. One that, if not monitored, or repaired, can bring down the entire house of oneself.

3. Why do you struggle with vulnerability?

I think we all struggle with vulnerability for a similar reason. We become vulnerable because something hurt us. We are wired to avoid painful things. The classic example of the hot stove. You touch the hot stove, you feel pain, you pull your hand back and learn not to touch hot stoves anymore. We experience an event that hurts us. We then avoid doing the same thing that causes pain. Unlike a hot stove, we need to either do the things that make us vulnerable, or get past them to be able to live.

4. What did you tell yourself when faced with something you thought insurmountable?

I told myself that God would get me through it. He had brought me this far. If he brought me to it, he would bring me through it. Recently, this hasn't always quite been enough but, it has been something when there was nothing. 

My Mindful Self

For this week's assignment, we have several questions related to Daniel Siegel's Ted X talk.

1. Which of the three R's (Reflection, Relationship, and Resilience) do you feel you need to develop?

I feel that I really need to develop my resilience. Through the past few years, there have been many times when I haven't been able to follow through on things. Though there were many factors in these situations, I was one of them.

2. What three books have you read in the past year?

Well, now that's a silly question. I have read at least two dozen, if not three, in the past year. To make it easy, my three Favorites have been, The City of Falling Angels and Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil by John Berendt and The Murder at the Vicarage by Agatha Christie. I simply love the way Berendt writes and I wish he would write more books and no one can beat a Christie whodunit. 

3. As a child, what did you do in your free time?

It shouldn't come as a big surprise that I liked to read. Nancy Drew was my girl when I was a child and I still collect Nancy Drew books today.

4. What's a goal that has been on your list for a few years?

The goal that has been at the top of my list for a few years has been to make my own business. I've been working away at for one year now and I know there will be a few more before it comes to fruition but, anything worth having is worth working for, right?

5. What do you actually do with your free time?

Well, now to answer that question, we would have to assume I have free time. When I'm not doing schoolwork, I make things for my business, work on inventory, online listings, etc. When I'm not doing that, I  spend time with my family and, of course, read a book or two. 

6. What types of activities energize you?

Cleaning house and doing chores actually energizes me. I think it has to do with the feeling of accomplishment, being able to check something off the list. I think it also has to do with the fact that I know I'm helping my Mom. She works part time but when she does, she works HARD. Being able to take some weight off her shoulders and mind always makes me feel good. 

7. What famous people intrigue you?

When I first read this question, I wonder if it applied to those who are living, those who have passed, or both. Historically speaking, Elizabeth I of England has always been a fascination of mine. The story of her life is so tragic yet also so amazing. Somewhat presently speaking, as much of a cliché as it is, Steve Jobs intrigues me. To have developed something so revolutionary, yet still be so petty, boggles my mind.

And there you have it, a look into my mindful self. 

The Creative Process

Since I started making friendship bracelets my sophomore year, I have started looking at everything with a DIY eye. I see so much jewelry in stores or online that I think, “I could so make that, and it would look so much better.” Then I do.

Pinterest is a major source of projects and inspiration. When it comes to projects, I have a tendency to read how they did it, and then do it my own way, mixing their methods and my own. You can see a great example of this in this post.

When I choose a picture for inspiration, that’s all I look at. For example, I recently made a necklace inspired by one I saw on Pinterest. Below is the inspiration pic.

          I thought I would make some tassels out of my incredible stash of embroidery floss. I started to do that when I realized that my stash did not lend itself to Ombre color scheme. I then thought one long tassel would look good, too. I made one and slid it on a colored ball chain that Michael’s practically paid me to buy. Below you have the result.

The material cost of this was less than $.50. You read that right, $.50. I took less than 5 minutes to make. Should I charge a mere $3 for this necklace, I would profit around $2.50 for 5 minutes of my time. That’s like making $30 an hour. What company pays that much for no experience or degree?

          One of the projects I have to be the most proud of, though, was digital. I receive daily emails from a website called Groopdealz. They offer discounts on boutique merchandise. One day, they sent me an email selling the print below.

I had recently been playing on the website, PicMonkey, a photo editing service. I looked at the print for a minute and thought the classic, “I can do that.” I had to play around on PicMonkey for a good bit before I figured out how to do it, but I did. I soon made a tutorial on how to do it for my personal blog. Not two weeks after, I had the honor to be featured on ‘It’s Overflowing’ as one of the best links from the previous week.

 

Writing the tutorial was a painstaking process. I had to start over and take screen shots of step and in between. I then had to edit the screen shots, and blah, blah, blah. I’m not here to complain. After I made this print and tutorial, I started seeing how to make so many others from Pinterest and other places on the Internet. Below you can see some Mine and Theirs.

Mine

Theirs

Working on so many projects has made me realize that craft supplies are expensive. It wasn't long before the math stopped adding up. I had to start getting crafty about my craft supplies.

Something that has become incredibly trendy is the T-Shirt scarf. T-shirts at craft scores can go for $5, $6 or even $7. Buying even just one shirt to make just one $5 scarf, doesn’t make good business sense. If you waited until the shirts went on sale to 4 for $10, (which isn’t too bad) you’re still paying $2.50 to make a $5 scarf, in addition to whatever time it takes you to make one. I simply couldn’t bring myself to do this. Lucky for me, a local thrift stores sells t-shirts printed t-shirts for $.50, a much better deal than $2.50.

I have also found it more cost efficient to buy a beaded necklace at a thrift store for $1 or $2 instead of the regular $6 or sale $3 for a 7 in string of beads at a craft store. A couple of things that are great to find at thrift stores are plates and candles sticks.

Yet another thing that seems to be all over Pinterest are plates glued to candlesticks to make cake stands. In my world, that is a display for my wares and let me tell you, displays are ex-pen-sive. Along those same lines are chalkboard trays. A great way to knock off that look is to get an old silver platter from your local thrift store, make your own chalkboard paint, and have at it. I took my own spin on it and made chalkboard frames by painting some clearance frames from Michael’s chrome and painting the inserts with chalkboard paint. I simply love the way they came out.

It’s amazing the things you can do with a pile of stuff. Supplies and materials are all around; you just have to put on your creative glasses.

An Interview

Due to illness, I was unable to get out and find someone in my field to interview, instead, I thought back to an interview I conducted last year for a college class. 

The assignment was to interview someone from 'a different culture,' that being defined as someone who has lived in one different country for 3/4ths of their life or someone over the age of 75. I went with the latter option. I had the privilege of interviewing a Mrs. Lois Reed, a member of my grandmother's church who I had met in passing at a church function.

Most of the questions I asked her had to do with how things were when she was growing up. 'What was integration like,' etc. While not directly related to my mentorship, her interview helped me understand the values of a specific demographic of potential customers. 

For instance, she said family was valued more when she was younger than it is now. In that same line, she noted that people used to have dinner parties where all their friends and family would come over and have a good time. She still holds parties quite frequently, not very elaborate, but the camaraderie is still the same. 

She also said one of the biggest things she noticed was language these days is so much coarser than when she was growing up. (Something I also abhor.)She said while she was working, she had a 'Bad Word Jar' in her office. Anyone that said a bad word in her office had to pay her. She said there was even one person that would give her $3 at the beginning of meetings because who knew they would swear and knew they would have to pay. 

Fashion was a very obvious difference. She said when she entered the workforce, women weren't allowed to wear slacks. She said she wore dresses and heels for a great deal of her working career. She also mentioned she had a hard time understanding the fashion trends of today. (Me too, Lois, me too.)

All of these things, along with a myriad of other things we talked about, help me understand how I can better serve the demographic similar to Mrs. Reed. From these things I know that when serving customers like Mrs. Reed, I should keep in mind they like to entertain, I should not swear, (like I would in the first place) and should keep my dress modest (like I wouldn't do that anyway). 

Interviewing Mrs. Reed was such a privilege and so enjoyable. I learned so much from her and will always have fond memories of our time together. If you ever have the opportunity to interview someone of an older generation, do it. You won't regret it.

E is for Empathy

This week's lesson is on empathy. 

Before I took the empathy quiz, I thought I was empathetic. Once I took the empathy test, I found that I am averagely empathetic. I don't think I was horribly surprised by this. Many of the statements I felt like I would need a concrete scenario to give an accurate response. Of course, that response would change depending on the scenario. 

I don't think someone can be taught empathy in the normal educational sense.

All of this make me think of the TV show 'Bones.'

I know we're not supposed to name names but it just works so well.

At the birth of the show, Forensic Anthropologist, Dr. Temperance Brennan comes off as extremely cold and extremely unempathetic. Her partner, FBI Agent, Seeley Booth, on the other hand, is very empathetic, much to Dr. Brennan's dislike. 

As the show continues through 8 seasons, Agent Booth begins to rub off on Dr. Brennan, to the point that they get married and have a baby. Of course, this doesn't happen through the course of a couple of episodes. Agent Booth gives Dr. Brennan little lessons in empathy every couple of episodes. 

For example, Dr. Brennan was testifying in a murder trail. She was warned not to use medical or anthropological terms when testifying because the jury won't be able to understand. She does, nonetheless. Agent Booth tells the Prosecutor to ask Dr. Brennan about a sensitive topic in her life so that when she answers, she will be more relatable to the jury. After it's all said and done, she was upset at Agent Booth for opening an old wound but understood why he did it, our first hint that she does have empathy.

Through a series of similar lessons, Dr. Brennan develops quite a bit on empathy for others. 

All of this goes to say, you can't 'teach' someone empathy, but through different experiences, one can develop a greater sense of empathy. That is, unless you are a psychopath in the true sense of the word.

My One-Word Resolution, Whom I Envy, and What I Lie About

(Kind of a doozie of a title wasn't it?)

My 'One-Word Resolution' for this year would have to be 'Grow.'

I chose this word for many reasons. One of them having to do with my relationship with God. This past year, I started my relationship with God and I have seen Him do such incredible things. I want to 'Grow' this relationship with him so that I can better serve him and spread the Good News. 

Another reason I chose this word is physical. I have a condition where I simply pass out. I like to call it Tall Teenage Girl Syndrome. We have multiple specialists, none really knowing what to say. The most recent one we went to, an expert in Tall Teenage Girl Syndrome said there is nothing we can do except wait it out. Most people 'Grow' out of it by their early 20's, as good a reason as any to want to 'Grow', in my case.

The last reason I chose this word is very emotional, literally. Last year, I went through some big changes in my life. Many that I am still dealing with and many that I am still enjoying today. I'm going to college and doing things that have me encountering situations I've never dealt with before. Some have turned out well, others not as well as I hoped for. It all makes for one heck of a roller-coaster. And let me tell you, I DO NOT like roller-coasters. I want to 'Grow' to be able to take all the ups and downs in stride and be able to enjoy the incredible life God has given me. 

'Whom I Envy'

An interesting topic for sure, 'Whom I Envy' are those whom are secure in their relationship with God. Those whom can trust Him to take care of anything and everything and those whom are secure enough in Him to never doubt and get frustrated with what's going 'wrong' in their life. As part of my 'One-Word Resolution' I want to grow my relationship with God so that I may become one of those 'Whom I Envy.'

'What I Lie About'

Yet another interesting topic, 'What I Lie About' is how I really am. You see someone in the hallway, you both wave and say, 'Hey, how ya doin'? Good, you? Good.' One of the things that come with Tall Teenage Girl Syndrome is being frequently lightheaded, nauseous, and all around not feeling good but, what do I say when I see someone in the hallway? 'I'm fine.' Everyday, I try to work through those sick feelings for the sake of my school attendance. (Don't get me started about attendance policies.) As a part of my 'One-Word Resolution' I want to 'Grow' so that the next time I see someone in the hallway, I won't be lying when I say, 'I'm fine.'

I hope you've had a Happy New Year so far and all your resolutions are on track.

Until next time.

A Little More 'Final' Final Project

Once again, we look toward the future. In the the not so distant future, we see the Honors Mentorship Final project. 

For my Final project, I want to make my business (more) profitable.

My thesis for this would be: What kind of business plan do I need to make my business (more) profitable.

I envision using Excel to chart expenses and possible profits. I also envision using Publisher and maybe Animoto to create promotional advertisements.

For my real inquiry, I will research successful business plans, adapt them to my business, and possibly apply them. (Not sure how long it will be before significant results can be seen.)

The success of my business has become an increasingly strong desire in my life. Common beliefs has everything stacked against me but, I know that with enough hard work and the support of the One and Only God, I know I can do it.

A Lesson Everyone Should Learn

If you know me, you might know that I love to save money. Times are tough. I don't really care who you are, everyone has been affected by the recession in some way, shape or form. With college coming up, so are a lot of expenses, some vital, some necessary, some that seem like one of the other two, the list goes on. One of the best ways to save money in college is going to be in your ID slot.

Your college ID can save you loads of money. No joke!

For example, I was in the Plato's Closet on Dawsonville Highway and saw where they give a 10% discount to Brenau, Gainesville State, and North Georgia students. I know it doesn't seem like a lot at the time but every little bit counts. Even more so if shop there a lot.

If you're the crafty type, JoAnn's has a 10% off discount card for college students. It's good on every purchase you make and doesn't expire for a year (or something like that).

I was a local thrift store and asked if they had discounts for college students. The cashier said they didn't but gave me one anyway!

Moral of the Story: It never hurts to ask. The worst they can do is say no. 

I'm eager to try this at Starbuck's and I know there are lists out there of restaurants that also give discounts.

This lesson also goes the High School students as well. JoAnn's summer program I mentioned earlier was specifically for High School students.

A Change of Plans

Everyday, I start leaning more and more towards pursuing my business for my Mentorship as opposed to Accounting. 

With this in mind, I searched for an article about the future of Small Businesses. I searched through Galileo and found one I could really sink my teeth in to.

The article I found is titled, 'But Where Did the Money Go?' and it's written by David Port.

In this article, Port interviews Karen Mills, the head of the Small Business Administration about what the SBA is really doing and if it is really helping small businesses.

The main goal of the SBA is to aid small businesses, mostly financially. They have counselors and advisers to help small businesses develop the business plans so that they can present better to banks and investors. In addition to this, they, and many intermediaries, provide microloans to small business owners.

Despite all they do for small businesses, the SBA has many critics. The large majority of their criticism come from the belief that the businesses they help aren't really 'small.' In reaction to this, Mills simply says, "This is a program for small business, it's not a program for big business masquerading as small businesses," (Port).

What I learned from this article is that, should I have trouble getting my business REALLY off the ground, there are agencies that I can turn to for help.

Work Cited

Port, David. "But Where Is The Money." Entrepreneur 38.8 (2010): 84-89. Business Source Complete. Web. 6 Dec. 2012.

Second Time Around

Dec 1, I did my second Craft Show. I felt a lot more confident going into this one, being my second time around.

This show was part of the Lighting of the Oaks program at Lanier Charter Career Academy at the Oaks in Oakwood, Georgia. Also a part of the program were performances by various groups, a Creative Christmas Tree Contest, a Gingerbread House Contest, a silent auction, and, of course, The Lighting of the Oaks.

This time my Mom and I went in together 50-50. She was selling Christmas bows while I sold my usual wares. 

I had actually set up some of my merchandise in the student run Gift Shop there. For the show, I simply moved them down the hall and set them up on my tables. 

This time was oh so different than my first Craft Show. 

There were people coming in and looking around while most of us vendors were still setting up. This really irritated me because I didn't have everything out and if they didn't see something they liked then, they would have no reason to come back and see the rest of my merchandise. It was just really unfair to everyone involved. 

Speaking of unfair things, as a performer myself, I felt uglier than pooting in church, talking and carrying on while all the different groups were singing. We were all in the same room with the performers and audience on one informal side and the Craft Show on the other informal side

I felt like there were a lot more people at this show than at my last one but, no one was buying. They said all my stuff was cute and neat and such a great idea but never bought. My Mom brought to my attention that most of the people coming through were probably the parents of those who were performing and probably didn't know that there was going to be a Craft Show going on. Needless to say, they wouldn't be prepared to spend money on all of our wonderful products.

I also REALLY disliked the set up of the tables in the space. They were basically set up in L's. We chose an L in the middle of the room. We thought we could get some good traffic this way but I soon found that I had my back to customers a good deal. I would follow my customers as they went around the table then back around as another customer came by. I spent the whole night going in circles. 

Despite all these issues/problems/concerns, we broke even and profited a tiny bit monetarily. I say it like that because another vendor told me about another show in Cornelia that takes place for three days, two weekends in a row, $30 for all six days. I feel like this show could be a really good fit and could do well for me. 

As I have said before, God takes care of his children. In more ways than one. 

Final Project Prep

If you've been following along, you'd know that I am mentoring with an Accountant. You'd also be confused by my last post about my Craft Show. Truth is, I don't know what I really want to do anymore. The rational career to choose is Accounting. People will always need someone to do their taxes and business owners will always need someone to keep their books meaning, there will always be a need for accountants. The thing I really want to do though, is pursue my business. I love being crafty and making things but, with the economy like it is, there's no guarantee. Nonetheless, I'm going to use this program to double dip, gaining experience in the Accounting field and also researching ways to better my business (and a little free advertising.)

This week, Honors Mentorship students were asked to consider technology in their field.

Q. How is technology used on a day to day basis?

A. With websites like eBay, etsy, and Pinterest, the Internet is used 24/7 to sell and promote products. It can also be used to research possible price points for your products. The Internet is also used to get in contact with possible customers through things like blogs, direct e-mail, etc. Mobile technology is also starting to emerge with the use of QR codes and smartphones.  

Q. What technology is used to communicate with other Professionals?

A. In this day and age, everything's electronic, making the simple answer email for simple inquiries, like getting in a show, etc. However, I'm old fashioned. I like to make cards and send them via snail mail as thank you notes. I recently interviewed someone for a project and am making them a card saying how honored I was to be able to interview them and thanking them for their time. Somethings just can't be said better than with a home made card.

Q. When presenting to other professionals, what do you use?
A. I believe that, while a picture is worth a thousand words, the real thing is worth so many more. When presenting my products to potential clients and customers, I use a display of my products when presenting to other professionals. If I am unable to present my products in person, I will send samples of my products as well as photos.

Q. What is your theory about the type of technology that will be used in the future?
A. I believe that the same technologies will be used with an increase in mobile technologies since, people are always on the go. 

Q. How can you imagine technology being incorporated in the profession?
A. I can imagine programs being written or software being created that allows customers to create their own versions of my products so they can see what the end product will be when placing custom orders.

Q. How will I incorporate technology into my final presentation?
A. I plan to create a PowerPoint or Prezi detailing my business plan, the implementation, and a graphical representation of the results. I will also try creating a QR to utilize mobile technologies. (I will also more than likely take advantage of the opportunity to sell my products and will have displays them.)

My First Time

Have no fear everybody. This is PG-13. I'm talking about my first craft show.

It all started when my Mom and I were at a Creative Memories representative's Open House. We were hanging out and she was telling us about all the other things she was doing and she mentioned she was holding a Craft Show the following weekend. I asked her to put me on the mailing for next time since I would have loved to participate. She looked up at me and said, "Well, do you want to do it next weekend?" I was so taken aback, my first response was 'no, thank you though.'

We went home and I started thinking about the Craft Show and my schedule and I began to realize, 'I can do this.' I emailed the representative and asked if it was too late for me to enter the show and if there was enough room for me. She said to come on down.

I got all my inventory together and started putting together my displays. 

Once I got all my displays done, I was so tired of looking at everything and working with it and, oh gosh. If it wasn't for my Mom who helped me so much and kept me going, I'm not that sure things would have been a good as they were.

We loaded up our Jeep the night before so, the next morning, we were ready to go. Our host allowed us to start setting up at 8 and that was when we were there. We got set up quickly enough and then it was a waiting game until the show 'officially' opened.

Things started SO SLOW. Oh my goodness, it was pitiful. I sold just a couple of things and was getting discouraged. My Mom tried to keep my spirits up and said, "Things will pick up after lunch." I kept that in mind and kept going. It wasn't long though until I got really discouraged.

I went to bathroom and nearly started to cry. At the rate I was going, I wasn't even going to be able to make up my $15 entrance fee. $15. I reminded myself, though, God takes care of his children, no matter how it turned out, it would be what was right for me.

I went back to selling and the lady selling next to me made a $15 purchase. I went from not even breaking even to making a profit. I was so ecstatic. Words can't even describe. I still get chills and funny feelings thinking about it. I now know that God heard me and worked through the lady selling next to me. The next purchase was $37. The most I have ever, ever sold.

Right before we closed up, I made one last sale giving a total of $60 in sales, $45 in profit. Considering my products, that's REALLY good.

Lucky for me, the other participants of the Craft Show were really supportive and helpful. They gave me lots of advice about my displays and pricing.

LESSONS LEARNED

I was so focused on getting my inventory together, I didn't think twice about promoting the event and promotion is half the battle.

My displays weren't the best they could have been when it came to my necklaces. One lady, that was also selling, pointed out if I turned the display 90 degrees, I would have more room. (Lightbulb goes off.)

Most of my product are for late teens and young women. While this particular age group  was not part of the population that came to the show, their parents were. The $37 purchase was made by our host and her sister as gifts for daughters and nieces. All of this means that you don't always have to sell your target market. You can also target those who would give them to your target market as gifts.  Oh Goodness, my fashion marketing class was really worth something.

Another thing about the $37 purchase was that a deciding factor in what the two ladies bought had to do with the recipients' school colors. I had heard before that I should make things in school colors but, this reinforced the idea. If I was doing a show in Forsyth County, then I could look up the schools in that area and their colors and make inventory for that area.

One thing I really wish I was is more outgoing. I saw a little girl, less than 18 months, coming over with her Mom. I knew I had a bracelet that would match her outfit perfectly I showed it to the little girl and tied it on her. (Good gosh she was so adorable.) She liked it so much, I gave her Mom a discount and made a sale. My point with all of this being, if I had done something similar with everyone who walked over, my sales would have tripled, meaning, I have GOT to work on my people skills.

One of the last things I learned was that, if you can, wear what you make. If you don't seem to like what you make, why should anyone else? By the end of the show, I was wearing one of my t-shirt scarves to show one it's unique feature of going through itself instead of having to tie a knot. You are your own best advertising.

With all these things in mind, I can't wait to go to another show. I'm beginning to think that maybe this is really what God wants me to do, and I couldn't be more excited.

What is Broken?

Seth Godin's Gel talk was almost as amusing as Sir Ken Robinson's TED talks. Nonetheless, he makes great points. One of the ones that struck me was the "It's not my job" category of broken. In this day and age, things are so compartmentalized. There's a department for everything and if it's not part of your department, you don'touch it. Explains why so many things are broken these days.

My experience with broken things falls under this category. Various members of my family have been received jury summons, our civic duty. They get a letter in the mail with instructions to call on a certain day at a certain time. They call only to be told to call again at a different time. So the cycle continues for a few days. All the while, they are unable to go to work should they be called in. This fails to make any sense to me. Either call them in or let them go? Why is that so hard?

I think what is broken with school falls under the "the world changed" category. The public education system was developed in the 1800's. 200 years later, we are still using the same system. To say things have changed since then would win the "Understatement of the Year" Award. It's no wonder the education system is broken. It's beyond outdated. It would be like me trying to do this assignment on one of the first PCs. Not only would it take me hours, I would send myself into a coma from banging my head into the wall so much. Thankfully, unlike the education system, PCs were updated as time went on. Things were improved upon, new things were created, some things were even removed. The same things need to happen to the education system, or else someone down the line will be their head against the wall.

My Essential Question

Like many people, I've known exactly what I wanted to do ten different times, and I'm still not wholly sure. I torn between going with my head or my heart. The logical choice would be a career in Accounting. It's a growing field and will never be hurt by the economy. The make-me-happy choice would be pursuing home business, Merritt's Marvels.

My essential question is, How do I create a successful (an profitable) home business?

I chose this question because it wasn't what I chose for my mentorship and there are days when I get a little sad about it. I try to look at is as, Well, at least I'll know how to take care of the finances of my business. Granted, if business isn't big enough, there won't be any finances to do. I really hope that I can apply all that I find in my research to my business so that it can grow. Just the thought makes me all tingly. While a little broad, I think this question can provide with all the answers I need to help my business grow, become more successful, and (hopefully) more profitable. 

Scholarly Review

For this week's Honors Mentorship assignment, we were asked to review a scholarly article related to our mentorship.

Since my mentorship is Accounting, I went digging through Galileo to find something relevant and, most importantly, understandable. Let me just say, it wasn't exactly easy. 

I finally found the following article.

Article

By Matthew Gilleard, Graduate of the University of Nottingham, Corporate Tax Editor for International Tax Review.

It his article Gilleard, describes the trend of American businesses moving to foreign countries, notably Ireland. The businesses have been moving due to foreign countries' preferable tax codes compared to America's.

He goes to quote Donald Marron, director of the Tax Policy Center, saying this, "'America's tax system is a mess. It's needlessly complicated, economically harmful, and often unfair,'" (Gilleard). 

Ireland's tax system, as well as those of many other countries, is much simpler and cost a great deal less to companies. 

One need not wonder why the companies moved. 

I have experienced the disparity of the tax system for myself in my by observing the writing and filings of personal and corporate tax returns. It is truly unbelievable the way the systems works and how people work it. 

Gilleard ends his article saying that the American tax system is in dire need of reform, and I most certainly agree.

I thought Gilleard was very unbiased and unpersuasive, though, since he wasn't trying to persuade, this need not reflect poorly on his writing skill. I found what he said to be fair and true and goes to confirm conclusions about our tax system that I had already formed.

Source:

Gilleard, M. (2012). Eaton's move to ireland highlights need for US tax reform. International Tax Review, , n/a. Retrieved from http://search.proquest.com/docview/1032770596?accountid=11023